Hope is special
Hope is everything,
If something comes out, it seems a miracle,
It lets us shine,
It lets us survive,
Do not let go our dreams ..
It lets us continue,
In this adventurous roller coaster ..
It allows us to be patient in this madness,
Let’s not give up hope.
Let’s pass on hope to everyone,
Hope is life,
Hope lets us live.



Creating new goals


Hi Uni’s !

I am pleased to confirm that I achieved one of my goals last month. It makes me very well aware that I get more confident and want to go through it. Want to continue developing myself and my possibilities. Expanding opportunities in life through the things I want. Let’s make a deal that we are all doing this? Achieving goals (do not matter 1 day, 1 year of 10 years it will take) achieve and then achieve new goals and go ahead.

It also gives a nice feeling. Such a beautiful pride that you can give yourself. Only you who can make it true and really do it by yourself. Achieving one goal can make you a person with so much more hope to continue. And to see that you are worth more in this life.


Nothing comes by itself. Everything needs to be done. It’s a lot of little .. nothing comes from itself, out of nowhere. If you really want something and it’s a realistic goal? Then create a schedule with a planning of how to achieve that goal. Then, be happy with your life, even if you’re in trouble. That’s just what’s makes life exciting and varied right? Okeee that might be al little too positive hahah! But you’re understand me, I hope so.

Do not worry too much about what you’re all about. Do not pretend (what sometimes can happen), then you’re not upset. People will take you less seriously later. But do not let anyone throw your goals into the deep. It is YOUR life, YOUR purpose (s), YOUR dream. You give your life a décor. Like your room or home or clothes or a blog. Try not to forget why you all doing it fore and stay patient.

We can handle it, let’s do it together!


Be the best version of yourself

Column/Poezie, Stories/Poetry-

We have to strive to be the best possible version of our self. If we are not doing that, then we are not living consciously.
We are just like robots living while each day past bye. Why are we like this? It sits within our genetics, our minds I think.
Its normal but not normalize this until you act like a robot. The bigger the unconsciousness the more you neglect yourself.
Maybe you don’t realize that in the moment but wait and see it will happen one day.

It will happen one day..
you will see and everyone will see the changing in your face..
thinking why now and not earlier why now..
I wish I knew earlier.. But that’s life and life goes on..
Even if its unconsciously, even if its in your face..
It will happen one day..

But it is never too late to find out and I think that the universe (God) will plan the time what has written for you. Which has a special reason for everyone.But we.. we humans have the heart that is given to us. So why not reflect to our inner self and see what has to be done.

See what has to be done..
The chances everyone has to face..
That is the hardest challenge to do, to admit to yourself what has to be changed
But also the  most overwhelmed beautiful feeling of freedom
When you are feeling you set free..
So see what has to be done..

Then there will be peace.


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Ramadan Update!

Column/Poezie, Levensstijl

We zijn al net over de helft van de ramadan en wat gaat dat snel !!
Ik voel me best goed. Dit is mijn 2e x ramadan en net als de vorige x gaat het een beetje hetzelfde. Overal gemeen best fit en geen honger of dorst. Naja oke.. suf voelen hoort erbij en wel af en toe erge hongergevoel maar pas na middag rond 4 of 5 uur krijg ik dat en nog steeds goed vol te houden. In het begin had ik last van 1 dag hoofdpijn maar dat is allang weer verleden tijd gelukkig.

Op sommige dagen voel ik een hele leegte in mijn buik of maag. En dan opeens begint het te werken.. Het voelt niet fijn maar ik besef dan op dat moment dat mijn lichaam aan het ontgiften is en een hele detox reiniging gepland heeft!

Gezond eten is ook 1 van de dingen die ik belangrijk vind elke dag ook buiten de ramadan tijden. Maar vooral tijdens de ramadan omdat je de hele dag je dagelijkse leven moet oppakken zoals werk, school, examens noem maar op! Groente en fruit dus. Ik probeer elke avond fruit te eten en verschillende nootjes, zoals walnoten amandelen etc. Deze maand doet mij goed beseffen dat wij de mensen hier teveel eten in ons mond proppen zonder te beseffen wat we in ons mond proppen. We doen zoveel dingen onbewust wat eigenlijk best bizar is. Een mens heeft maar een bepaalde hoeveelheid voedsel, drinken, kleding en levensmaterialen nodig om te kunnen overleven. En hebben we meer dan voldoende? Dan is dat ook niet erg, zolang we maar waarderen wat we hebben en anderen helpen.

Ik probeer mezelf bezig te houden met belangrijke dingen zoals spiritualiteit, omgeving en persoonlijke doelen. Ook probeer ik struggles waar ik normaal gesproken mee zit, weg te vegen door er niet teveel negatieve aandacht aan te besteden of door ze juist aan te pakken. Prioriteiten stellen aan de belangrijkere aspecten van het leven is altijd mijn doel geweest maar juist in deze maand word je een beetje gedwongen om er naar te kijken. Back to basic is de juiste benaming daarvoor. Liefde, vrede en acceptatie is wat uiteindelijk telt!

Hoe gaat het bij jullie? Laat het me onderin weten !




We are who we are

Column/Poezie, Stories/Poetry-

We are who we are.
Just like the glittering star. Above so high and safe.
For others to see and for others to enjoy.
But yet not so untouchable and free from hurt.

But we, we are who we are..
Different like anyone else. That makes one each person unique.
Sometimes hard to believing yourself that is right. So we sometimes feel so week.
Why not behave like the star so light. It tells you to look at me. Shining so bright.
In the dark feeling so free.

Doubting and competing each other with bad deeds and materials.
Not knowing we all will stand one day for trial.
Now hoping that the others realize that they can chance the way they are.
The sens and value of what is when we are who we are.. wishing just to be like the star.




Column/Poezie, Stories/Poetry-


So afraid..
For others who think but think ugly.
For others who make an opinion but not a positive one.
For others who see but not see the real thing.
For others who relate but not tell.
For others who judge and not afraid to show.

Why are we so afraid?
For others who disappoints other souls yet they do what they want.
For others who need to wear you a mask and can not resist if you take it off.

But really..






Why writing is beautiful


When I write, I let go all of my attention to anything else. When I see something horrible on tv or in real life and I get upset about it, I write about it. You can place your feelings in a place. In this case a writing book. It also feels really nostalgic but I like that feeling. Maybe because its against this futuristic time..

I am not the type of people that has to show to everyone what I wrote. I write for my self. To calm my head and relax. And just to be honest, secretly I sometimes hope someone else will read it and then think wauw.. I think the same, I know exactly how she feels! Cause lets get real. In this life people want to have a chemistry, a bond or some kind of connection with other beautiful souls. There is nothing greater feeling then have that connection with someone and especially with people you don´t know. Why? Because you immediately create a bond between each other. And you feel there is a understanding.

But lets talk about the manner of writing. I think there has to be a respect. Also if you write for your self only. You never know who will find out your books/letters/journal! That is not the only reason.. If we write.. we are conscious at that moment about what we write. Right? So if we write something very bad then we let the bad take control our minds. In stead if we try to write things in a positive respectful way we act more like that. And if you look on the last comment, we act that behavior unconscious. So if we take control what we are able to control then we in a manner have control over the act on what we have no control over. The unconsciousness.

I don´t say; never write something that has to do with negativity. Not at all. I do that all the time! but I mean try to stay away from writing something very horrible. For example, very bad things about a person or a group. Try to write the situation and your feelings, that is ok. If you want me to be honest.. I often write when I am alone en feel horrible or sad. Writing is at that moment my therapy. I restore myself by writing.

What I find funny is that I often remind myself to write also when I feel happy. And so i keep doing that. In that way you keep diversity! (also good for the person who ”accidentally” reads some of your stories haha).

Maybe you think; what is she talking about. Or maybe you think; i know what she means. I just hope some of you can relate to this.

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